Adoptee Authors

When I finally began coming out of the fog as an adoptee at the half-century mark of my life, I searched for someone walking the same road. I was amazed at how many of us there are! Another adoptee, unraveling relinquishment, crawling through the swamp of reunion. I’m not sure why I didn’t seek out books about adoption/adoptee/search and reunion decades earlier? I think it was all part of staying in the fog.

But when the fog lifted, I craved connection with other adoptees whose similar stories assured me that I was not going crazy, I was not imagining things and one day, I was going to be O.K. These connections were my life line. I’m not even kidding. I’m so thankful for these brave souls who openly share their journeys. I hope you find encouragement through the scars – lived and written by adoptees – just like you….

The books that helped me the most were recommended to me by other adoptees. The following list was compiled from adoptee recommendations. The goal here is to give you a starting place to choose from the plethora of books available. I haven’t read all of these so I cannot endorse them, but simply provide a place to start in your book search.

Briarly, Saroo – Lion

Chung, Nicole – All You Can Ever Know

Davis, Damon – Who Am I Really

Defoe, Denise – They Chose Me

Easterly, Sara – Searching for Mom

Eldridge, Sherrie – 20 Life-Transforming Choices Adoptees Need to Make

Ghoston, Jennifer – The Truth So Far

Gibney, Shannon – See No Color

Hall, Elena – Through Adopted Eyes

Heffron, Anne – You Don’t Look Adopted

Hoffman, Kevin – Growing Up Black in White

Hoye, Linda – Two Hearts: An Adoptee’s Journey Through Grief to Gratitude

Hoye, Linda – The Presence of Absence

Huang, Marijane – Beyond Two Worlds

Hynes, Tony – The Son with Two Moms

Lee, J.S. – Keurium

Lockington, Mariama – For Black Girls Like Me

McAlister, Destini – Set Free

Palmer, Caitriona – An Affair with My Mother

Phillips, Zara – Mother Me

Pittman, Lauren – The Lies that Bind

Sharkey, Lauren – Inconvenient Daughter

Sjoblom, Lisa Wool-Rim – Palimpsest

Tucker, Angela – The Adoptee Next Door (coming soon)

**If you would like a more extensive selection of books written by adoptees, be sure to check out http://www.adopteereading.com